“Prayer is where the action is." John Wesley
Why do we so often feel like our prayers go unanswered? The
bible clearly tells us: “those who ask shall receive; seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened.”
1Peter 3:12-
For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and His ears are
open to their prayers.
But in the mist of our loud and chaotic world, we feel far from the Lord. It often seems that the daily traffic
drowns out our prayers. (Especially in New York City) Looking around, there are
so many broken people crying for help; why would God be concerned with my “insignificant” requests
when there are so many others to worry about?
Growing up, did you ever play “ding dong dash?” I can
remember playing this game with the neighborhood kids. This game was only fun for
the first ring or two. On the third or fourth ring no one would answer the door
because the home owner caught on to our childish game. This is
often how we view prayer… we dock on the door but we do not truly intend on
entering. We ask for blessings but we do not really expect them. Our prayers so
often align with the “run away knocks,” but Jesus shouldn’t be expected to
answer these kinds of requests.
So many of us have become accustomed to “unanswered”
prayers- or maybe the answer is wait or no- we
begin praying with only a faint hope that God will act on our behalf. This is
exactly what the enemy wants us to believe. Satan wants us to doubt prayer
because he knows the true power it holds.
1 John 5:14-15
This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask
anything according to his will, he hears us. And
if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked
of him.
God wants me to ask expectantly. If I truly
believe in a God who created the world and in Jesus who died on a cross for me,
then why do I doubt his blessings? I believe He was joyfully willing to take my
place on the cross, so why is it so hard to believe He will answer my prayers?
If I truly believe, why can’t I trust his answers, even when the answer is: WAIT?
Doesn’t he know best?
In January I joined a prayer focused bible
study. These women are prayer warriors! I have been involved in several small
groups, but this is the first group that has emphasized the importance of
prayer. Every Monday evening we meet to discuss our weekly devotionals, the
insight these ladies give leaves me with chills; but it wasn’t the commentary
that drew me to these women, it was their prayers. At the end of our time
together, we spend a solid 30 to 40 minutes just praying for one another. The
first few weeks in this group, I was too shy to pray out loud. I thought my
prayers did not sound as “holy” as theirs, I was not as strong as them.
Even when I am alone, I find myself at a
loss for words. I have all these emotions but I don’t know how to present them
to the Lord. I can’t verbally speak my feelings all the time. Just last night I
was speaking to a friend and could not explain the emotions I had, but I was
painfully down about a few circumstances. Just like my friend understood
without my words, the Holy Spirit knows exactly how we feel.
Romans 8:26-27
In the same way, the Spirit
helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the
Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans. And he who searches our
hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s
people in accordance with the will of God.
You don’t have to have all the right words,
or sound like a biblical scholar… God just wants you to sit still and be in his
presence. He knows your heart and he knows what you are going through. No
matter what you are upset about, your feelings are not insignificant!
Luke 11:9-10
“So I say to you: Ask and it
will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened
to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to
the one who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which
of you fathers, if your son asks for
a fish, will give him a snake instead? Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion?
If you then, though you are evil, know
how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in
heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?”
SO true! I definitely think this is something many people feel. It's easy to think that our prayers aren't important or sometimes to think that our requests aren't being heard when the answer is to wait or simply no. I definitely have seen the power of prayer in others lives, but struggle to believe it for myself. That is a lie of the enemy and something I am working to change. Thanks for the wonderfully written reminder Laura!
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